Blog

The Michael Who Likes Thinking

Us Them

Nope. That isn’t an error in the title. It’s intentional. What word would you put between those two words? The first thing that pops into my mind is us VERSUS them. Two parties on opposite sides, against each other. I don’t often think of us AND them. Two independent entities who can work together, oppose…

Us Them

Nope. That isn’t an error in the title. It’s intentional. What word would yo put between those two words? The first thing that pops into my mind is us VERSUS them. Two parties on opposite sides, against each other. I don’t often think of us AND them. Two independent entities who can work together, oppose…

Us ______ Them

Nope. That isn’t an error in the title. It’s intentional. How would you fill in the blank? The first thing that pops into my mind is us VERSUS them. Two parties on opposite sides, against each other. I don’t often think of us AND them. Two independent entities who can work together, oppose each other…

More. Or Less.

We’re all fungible. Replaceable. Basically commodities. Or so said a friend in the context of who was going to play in a pickleball game. I couldn’t argue. But it got me thinking. Aren’t we supposed to be unique and irreplaceable? So I asked myself, and I ask you, who’s irreplaceable to you? And to whom…

Revelations From The Pickleball Court

Pickleball is having its moment. Most people I speak to have either tried it or listened to a friend wax on about why it’s the greatest thing since sliced bread (sound familiar?). I’ve been playing regularly for about a year and love it. But this isn’t about pickleball. It’s about human nature with pickleball as…

My Code

Did you watch Dexter? He worked in forensics for the Miami Police Department. In his spare time he killed criminals who escaped justice. He used his code to determine if he should kill someone. My code is nothing like that. I watched a movie called Breaker Morant when I was a teenager. A line in…

How Far Would You Go?

[Note: I spent a lot of time thinking about whether or not to write this. So much has already been written on this topic.  But in the end I decided to write it because I don’t want to remain silent. So here goes.] How far would you go? To protect your loved ones, that is.…

Everywhere, All the Time.

We’re friends, you and I. As close as can be. We share common values. We have common interests. We love spending time together. But there’s something you can’t see that I want you to know. I’m Jewish. “Are you kidding?!”, you’re probably saying. “You know I know that. We’re different religions, but we’re not religious.…

Gone Fishin’. In My Head.

Hi. It’s been a while. Are you still here? If you are, you’ve probably realized I don’t stick to a regular writing schedule. Why is that? First, because I only write when I have something to say, like now. Second, it takes me time to write. There are writers who say the words flow off…

Connections. Kindness. Compassion. And Love.

This is a story about love. And Cole. And me. And one of the ways in which I’ve changed since Cole died. It may also turn out to be a therapy session. Where to begin? My grandparents moved to Canada from Poland and Russia in the 1920s. Yes, we’re travelling all the way back to…

Something went wrong. Please refresh the page and/or try again.


Follow My Blog

Get new posts sent directly to your inbox.